The Thing With Father’s Day

Ponce here…

I just wanna say I love Father’s Day because I love my father. He is the sweetest man just like I said in my song about him. He used to be an old crank but he’s nice now and he really makes me laugh. My favorite thing about Father’s Day is to call him and say Happy Father’s Day. And I sing to him and torture him a little and he loves it because he loves his Ponce. I love having a good family and getting along and I hate to fight but sometimes we all drive each other crazy. But that’s okay. We get past it all.

Bro wanted to do a new Father’s Day song and I wanted to do one too so he wrote one and I wrote mine and then we did them and sent them to Dirty Jenny and she played the guitar on them. She rocks ass.

So here they are and I hope you love them. Love my father.

SAP here…

It is odd that I find myself posting a 3rd video we made for our father. 4th if you count the remix we did last year. Odd because I never would have believed our family would be this close if you asked me 20 years ago. In short, my father and I did not get along my entire childhood. Most people who go through what we went through growing up would probably hit the road at 18 and never speak to each other again.

This was not the case with my family. Why? Not really sure. I think the one thing I can point too that changed things was not keeping things buried inside. When I realized I had no real reason to ever speak to my father again I decided to let him know, and to let him know why. Shockingly, he apologized and told me why he was the way he was when I was growing up. It all slowly trickled down from there. Apologies, conversations, getting to know each other… never would have happened had I not spoken up. I think facing things head on is the one of the hardest things to do for many people in this life. Sadly, I know that a lot of the time, honesty is met with deaf ears. However, that doesn’t change the face that if you never speak out then the person you have an issue with would never have a chance to step up and deal with the situation. They might not even have a clue that they have done something that has affected you. sometimes people are truly oblivious to the affect they have on others.

So, my Father’s Day message is simply to talk to each other. I know too many friends who haven’t spoken to their parents since they left home. They never talked to them about why they decided to end relations with them. And so much time has passed at this point that I totally understand why it is just too daunting of an issue to dig up and try to resolve.

I count myself lucky to have the relationship I do with my father. And I love you, Father. For reals.

Here are you two new Father’s Day songs from your two boys. And the original one we made for you too… the one with the special cameo at the end by Sistah.

Happy Father’s Day

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SAPPY BIRTHDAY

SAP here…

It is my birthday and i am super duper happy that I have such a sweet family and group of friends who actually make me feel happy I was birthed. Too much crap in this world has the opposite affect.Ponce actually made his blog a mini-celebration of the day and I couldn’t be prouder of the little stud.

Something you should know about Ponce. Last year he decided to throw me a surprise birthday party. Ponce puts new meaning into the word surprise. The guests were all surprised too. Basically, he got a few friends to help him organize it. Thing is, nobody knew there were others helping so 3 different entities were trying to set up the same thing. Ponce, trying to please everyone, said yes to every idea. The night went something like this…

6PM. Our friend Pedro shows up at our apartment. He’s not what you’d call a regular at our place and he looked shell shocked when he saw he was the only one at our place. I knew something was up then. He could only stay about 30 minutes. Next, I had to leave to go do something for Ponce. He just wanted me out of the house for a little bit. When I returned… no surprise party. We went to a cafe, Alcove. There was a handful of our friends there to surprise us. Then Ponce gets a call. Some other people had shown up at our Apartment but nobody was there to let them in. A third group of friends called from yet another location. It was the perfect storm of 3 different plans all colliding in, what I have to say, was one of the best, most memorable, and definitely surprising to EVERYONE involved, birthday parties of my life.

Thank you bro. And thanks for the birthday wishes. Enjoy Ponce Vlog #4 SAPPY Birthday

Happy New Year

Ponce here…

Me an bro really love the holidays. I love them so much and love to see my family and my friends. This is our New Years video we made for everyone out there our friends and fans and we want everybody to rock on! And I am dead sexy in this video so pass it on.

SAP here…

Dead Sexy indeed. We love making these flicks and we really do appreciate everybody out there who supports us. This has been a tough year but we got through it and things, as the saying goes, are looking up. we will keep making with the fun, the funny, the… at times… touching (emotionally you pervert), and continue to fight the good fight.

Happy New Year to everyone.

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Happy Father’s Day Video

So… for those in the know or those who wanna be in the know, this is our Father’s Day song originally made last year and posted on thesaptube

However, our father came into town for a visit so we couldn’t resist adding a dance section with him and doing a REMIX.

Enjoy, and send it to a Father you think will get a kick out of it.